As we approach the end of the year, housing assignments are beginning to take shape. Here are some tips to keep in mind when deciding where and with whom you want to room with next year.
Best friends aren't always the best roommates
When choosing a roommate, it's important to keep in mind not only who you want to live with, but how you want to live. Take it from me: just because you do not live with your best friend does not mean that you won't be friends anymore. I went from having my BFF right there, 24/7 to living across campus from me. I was devastated. I thought that it meant no more late night snack runs, cuddle/ gossip sessions, and that our friendship would be over before the end of the year. I was so, so wrong. Even though we don't live together anymore, we still hang out more than is probably healthy, and we have separate places to go when we want to kill each other (which isn't often, but, you know, it's always good to have some private time).
Look for compatible living styles
Are you an early bird neat-freak that likes to blast loud music while you study? Then you probably won't live well with a messy night owl that needs silence to do her work. It sounds completely obvious, but it really is important to look at compatibility when choosing roommates. Some variety is good, but it's always good to have roommates that understand — and respect — you and your living needs.
Establish boundaries at the beginning
When you find someone you may want to room with, sit down over coffee or lunch with them and have an open and honest discussion about needs and expectations for the upcoming year. By setting rules and expectations at the beginning, you are ensuring that you'll have the best year and roommates yet!
Hope these rules help! Happy roommate shopping!
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